"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Showing Interest

Gammergq

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Okay my number one principle with girls after trail and error is not to show too much interest especially in start but how do you show the right amount of interest and keep a aloofness and control of the situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nexus Polaris

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I don't know how much is just enough, but don't do what I do. I've been overcompensating and running them off by being too aloof.

There's a line somewhere in the middle that's personable. It's between too interested and not interested enough. I still haven't found it.
 

Interceptor

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Show interest when she shows you something interesting.
 

ready123

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yea, I agree with Interceptor. showing interest is fine if it's genuine. if she says something you think is fvckin cool - like she's a fan of the same NBA team as you, or you like the same kind of movies, you don't lose value for being interested

showing interest for no reason is what you should avoid - that just telegraphs desparation

if you're actign aloof, you're purposely making yourself boring, not cooler. don't do that sh!t
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lord Shinra

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I usually take her IOI's and match them. I keep matching and then when she isn't expecting it I'll up the ante a good amount.

It will really make it look like you have a pair and if she dont like you, you know ahead of time to move on.
 

mongolboy

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Show interest if she shows you interesting or the other way around also 2, if there is no interest oh well NEXT!!! there are 3 billion girls in the world and 28,526 days 2 live so GO GET IT!
 
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