"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Showin her a good time

IronRice

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I am gonna go hang with this gurl pretty soon. I want to impress her. Anyone got Ideas of what I can do/say because I really wanna show her a good time at the movies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vincent

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Don't go to the movies.

Also girl.
 

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movies dates should be used as later dates when u two know each other well enough....

if i was u i would take her to a place u could play some pool or have some kind of physical activity , maby get some kino in helping her make a great shot.... and stuff liek that , it would impress a girl i guess.... movies u cat really do much , just sit there and watch and afterwards have some lame kinda chit chat about the main chrachters in the mvoei , i find it booring....

take my advice change the date right now , she will think ur spontaniuos and go to a place where u can do some physical activities, like bowling or pool or sumthing....

yes i know my grammar sux , but its late and im kinda tired.....
 

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You're lucky I'm kinda woozy or else I'd be a little more upset, but c'mon. Take the time to make a good post. It'll help peoples respect your advice and make this forum seem more educated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thank you. It was her choice to go see "Into the Blue" or what ever. I don't know about changin' it.
 
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