"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Showin her a good time

IronRice

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 14, 2005
Messages
70
Reaction score
0
Age
35
Location
Florida
I am gonna go hang with this gurl pretty soon. I want to impress her. Anyone got Ideas of what I can do/say because I really wanna show her a good time at the movies.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Don't go to the movies.

Also girl.
 

Morphiex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2005
Messages
662
Reaction score
1
movies dates should be used as later dates when u two know each other well enough....

if i was u i would take her to a place u could play some pool or have some kind of physical activity , maby get some kino in helping her make a great shot.... and stuff liek that , it would impress a girl i guess.... movies u cat really do much , just sit there and watch and afterwards have some lame kinda chit chat about the main chrachters in the mvoei , i find it booring....

take my advice change the date right now , she will think ur spontaniuos and go to a place where u can do some physical activities, like bowling or pool or sumthing....

yes i know my grammar sux , but its late and im kinda tired.....
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
You're lucky I'm kinda woozy or else I'd be a little more upset, but c'mon. Take the time to make a good post. It'll help peoples respect your advice and make this forum seem more educated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

IronRice

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 14, 2005
Messages
70
Reaction score
0
Age
35
Location
Florida
Thank you. It was her choice to go see "Into the Blue" or what ever. I don't know about changin' it.
 
Top