"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am gonna go hang with this gurl pretty soon. I want to impress her. Anyone got Ideas of what I can do/say because I really wanna show her a good time at the movies.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't go to the movies.

Also girl.
 
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movies dates should be used as later dates when u two know each other well enough....

if i was u i would take her to a place u could play some pool or have some kind of physical activity , maby get some kino in helping her make a great shot.... and stuff liek that , it would impress a girl i guess.... movies u cat really do much , just sit there and watch and afterwards have some lame kinda chit chat about the main chrachters in the mvoei , i find it booring....

take my advice change the date right now , she will think ur spontaniuos and go to a place where u can do some physical activities, like bowling or pool or sumthing....

yes i know my grammar sux , but its late and im kinda tired.....
 
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You're lucky I'm kinda woozy or else I'd be a little more upset, but c'mon. Take the time to make a good post. It'll help peoples respect your advice and make this forum seem more educated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thank you. It was her choice to go see "Into the Blue" or what ever. I don't know about changin' it.
 
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