"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Showin her a good time

IronRice

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I am gonna go hang with this gurl pretty soon. I want to impress her. Anyone got Ideas of what I can do/say because I really wanna show her a good time at the movies.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vincent

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Don't go to the movies.

Also girl.
 

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movies dates should be used as later dates when u two know each other well enough....

if i was u i would take her to a place u could play some pool or have some kind of physical activity , maby get some kino in helping her make a great shot.... and stuff liek that , it would impress a girl i guess.... movies u cat really do much , just sit there and watch and afterwards have some lame kinda chit chat about the main chrachters in the mvoei , i find it booring....

take my advice change the date right now , she will think ur spontaniuos and go to a place where u can do some physical activities, like bowling or pool or sumthing....

yes i know my grammar sux , but its late and im kinda tired.....
 

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You're lucky I'm kinda woozy or else I'd be a little more upset, but c'mon. Take the time to make a good post. It'll help peoples respect your advice and make this forum seem more educated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thank you. It was her choice to go see "Into the Blue" or what ever. I don't know about changin' it.
 
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