"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well this weekend im going to a party and i know this girl thats going. We bin talking alot lately and shes told me she likes me. Im just unsure on how to approach and how to get a good'ld snog out of her :p. Im not a shy person and ill most properly be wasted to f**k on the night :D so there will be a whole lota confidence in me.

I just wanna be ready, cause i dont really wanna screw this up shes hot! :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah its an easy scenario but i just want to start it right not some crap like

Me: Hi
Her: Hi

SILENCE
 
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actually, what u said happened to me several times with this girl i really liked... except she said "hi" first.. attention wh0re... lol.

ummm after that there was sexual tension between us because i felt somethign i hope she felt it too lol.
 
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You know, sometimes I wonder if people have ever had a conversation before...

"So, how has your day/week/summer been?"
"How do you know (party host)?"
"What kind of music do you like?"
"What do you usually do for fun?"
"What's you favorite movie/Have you seen any good ones lately?"
"If you could go on vacation anywhere in the world, where would you go?"
"What do you REALLY want to do when you're older?"

Then, follow up her answers with more questions, like:

You: So, how has your summer been?

Her: Pretty good, I went camping with my family last weekend.

You: Really? Where did you guys go?

Her: We went to (whatever).

You: Oh cool, I hear they have some really nice trails there. (make stuff like this up if you need to)

Her: Yeah they do. We actually got lost on one of them!

You: Haha, too bad I wasn't there, I'm a master navigator! (C+F)


Now maybe that wasn't the world's greatest conversation but you get the idea. Even if the chick is anti-social or something and only gives one-word answers, you can still use this technique:

You: So, how has your summer been?
Her: Good.
You: Only "good"? What have you been doing?
Her: Mostly working.
You: Where do you work?


Etc, etc. Understand now? If you're both drunk that should make things 100x easier.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're gonna be really really drunk, the best thing to do is not talk to her (unless she's also really drunk). If she's not and you are, youll come off as obnoxious, clumsy, and generally not juanish at all. Overall, you'll come off as a drunk.
 
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Originally posted by splinterkb
If you're gonna be really really drunk, the best thing to do is not talk to her (unless she's also really drunk). If she's not and you are, youll come off as obnoxious, clumsy, and generally not juanish at all. Overall, you'll come off as a drunk.
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and also she will remember EVERYTHING you did that night, wereas u will have no idea what happened
 
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you dont get drunk that often do you. You can remember everything when your drunk. Well I can.
 
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Originally posted by Ratman
you dont get drunk that often do you. You can remember everything when your drunk. Well I can.
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lol same here man ... I guess we're special : my sister doesn'T remember **** after she's wasted, same with all my friends ...
 
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