"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Show her the door ->[] ???

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Hey. I'm going to make this as quick and simple as possible since I'm going to sleep after I'm done with this thread.

I've read a 'little here and there' on this site that during the dating or LTR faze if the girl you're hooking up with doesn't obey you or starts to talk back at you then you "Show her the door". Treathen her that you'll leave her in a blink of an eye if she f's up.

This works well for example if she wants out with her ex-bf on a date or on a trip to some party island with that slutty friend of hers that you hate.

But this theory doesn't work at ALL times.
What about the small situations? I can't really come up with an example right now but same kind things just not as serious.
I mean you can't treathen to dump her once a week or she'll show you the bird. Atleast I would dump a chick the first time she'd try this trick on me.

Oh, just figured out an example I'm just too lazy to erase what I already wrote. What if you say to her to hangout with you on Friday and she says: Sorry, no she's going on a beer with some friend. (Lame example mabye)

Is it simply to just ignore and take away a bit of the attention?
I probably just answered my own question. Or am I wrong?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes, you just answered your own question.

Say cool and make other plans, dont be clingy.

And dont threaten, it will work 10 times better if you can get the message across without saying it. The trick is for her to come to the conclusion herself, without you saying it.
 
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Ease said:
Yes, you just answered your own question.

Say cool and make other plans, dont be clingy.

And dont threaten, it will work 10 times better if you can get the message across without saying it. The trick is for her to come to the conclusion herself, without you saying it.
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Makes total sence and I know this but still thank you for the reminder.

The funny thing with this forum is that you can read hours and hours and hours of theory, but when the time comes to use it atleast I get back to thinking like an AFC because I haven't practiced enough.
It's like reading a learning book about.. (whatever really) and then try to apply it, it'll be crap anyways when you start.

Thanks Ease for putting me back on track :)

Now for real, Good night SS.
 
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