"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Show her the door ->[] ???

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Hey. I'm going to make this as quick and simple as possible since I'm going to sleep after I'm done with this thread.

I've read a 'little here and there' on this site that during the dating or LTR faze if the girl you're hooking up with doesn't obey you or starts to talk back at you then you "Show her the door". Treathen her that you'll leave her in a blink of an eye if she f's up.

This works well for example if she wants out with her ex-bf on a date or on a trip to some party island with that slutty friend of hers that you hate.

But this theory doesn't work at ALL times.
What about the small situations? I can't really come up with an example right now but same kind things just not as serious.
I mean you can't treathen to dump her once a week or she'll show you the bird. Atleast I would dump a chick the first time she'd try this trick on me.

Oh, just figured out an example I'm just too lazy to erase what I already wrote. What if you say to her to hangout with you on Friday and she says: Sorry, no she's going on a beer with some friend. (Lame example mabye)

Is it simply to just ignore and take away a bit of the attention?
I probably just answered my own question. Or am I wrong?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, you just answered your own question.

Say cool and make other plans, dont be clingy.

And dont threaten, it will work 10 times better if you can get the message across without saying it. The trick is for her to come to the conclusion herself, without you saying it.
 
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Ease said:
Yes, you just answered your own question.

Say cool and make other plans, dont be clingy.

And dont threaten, it will work 10 times better if you can get the message across without saying it. The trick is for her to come to the conclusion herself, without you saying it.
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Makes total sence and I know this but still thank you for the reminder.

The funny thing with this forum is that you can read hours and hours and hours of theory, but when the time comes to use it atleast I get back to thinking like an AFC because I haven't practiced enough.
It's like reading a learning book about.. (whatever really) and then try to apply it, it'll be crap anyways when you start.

Thanks Ease for putting me back on track :)

Now for real, Good night SS.
 
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