Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Show her the door ->[] ???

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Hey. I'm going to make this as quick and simple as possible since I'm going to sleep after I'm done with this thread.

I've read a 'little here and there' on this site that during the dating or LTR faze if the girl you're hooking up with doesn't obey you or starts to talk back at you then you "Show her the door". Treathen her that you'll leave her in a blink of an eye if she f's up.

This works well for example if she wants out with her ex-bf on a date or on a trip to some party island with that slutty friend of hers that you hate.

But this theory doesn't work at ALL times.
What about the small situations? I can't really come up with an example right now but same kind things just not as serious.
I mean you can't treathen to dump her once a week or she'll show you the bird. Atleast I would dump a chick the first time she'd try this trick on me.

Oh, just figured out an example I'm just too lazy to erase what I already wrote. What if you say to her to hangout with you on Friday and she says: Sorry, no she's going on a beer with some friend. (Lame example mabye)

Is it simply to just ignore and take away a bit of the attention?
I probably just answered my own question. Or am I wrong?
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, you just answered your own question.

Say cool and make other plans, dont be clingy.

And dont threaten, it will work 10 times better if you can get the message across without saying it. The trick is for her to come to the conclusion herself, without you saying it.
 

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Ease said:
Yes, you just answered your own question.

Say cool and make other plans, dont be clingy.

And dont threaten, it will work 10 times better if you can get the message across without saying it. The trick is for her to come to the conclusion herself, without you saying it.


Makes total sence and I know this but still thank you for the reminder.

The funny thing with this forum is that you can read hours and hours and hours of theory, but when the time comes to use it atleast I get back to thinking like an AFC because I haven't practiced enough.
It's like reading a learning book about.. (whatever really) and then try to apply it, it'll be crap anyways when you start.

Thanks Ease for putting me back on track :)

Now for real, Good night SS.
 
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