"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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show her she is not a slut

mustfirstregister

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what do you say to her that can assure her she is not showing signs of a slut and us going to fast!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women have to show some signs of interest to show that they are on the market, but the stupid part about it is that showing any degree of interest can get them labeled as a "slut".

But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
what do you say to her that can assure her she is not showing signs of a slut and us going to fast!

but she is a slut! treat her accordingly
 

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mustfirstregister said:
what do you say to her that can assure her she is not showing signs of a slut and us going to fast!
Always treat her every woman like a lady. When you bestow responsibility upon someone they most often deliver to prove themselves.
 

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If she's a slut, so be it. It's not a crime to enjoy sex, and morals are subject to the individual.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just be playful and light-hearted, use plausible-deniability to make it look like it just happened and for her to be able to blame you for seduction because you are so damn good. Then, once she is isolated treat her like a slut that she is.
 

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When they love you (i.e. have high interest level, i.e. are attracted, i.e. have orgasms with you) they are always faithful, at least in their heart and mind.

With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.
 
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