mustfirstregister
Master Don Juan
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what do you say to her that can assure her she is not showing signs of a slut and us going to fast!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
show her she is not a slut
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Fly By Night
Master Don Juan
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Women have to show some signs of interest to show that they are on the market, but the stupid part about it is that showing any degree of interest can get them labeled as a "slut".
But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
But sorry, I wouldn't know how to put that in a good sentence to her.
ilikecharlene
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If she's a slut, so be it. It's not a crime to enjoy sex, and morals are subject to the individual.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Just be playful and light-hearted, use plausible-deniability to make it look like it just happened and for her to be able to blame you for seduction because you are so damn good. Then, once she is isolated treat her like a slut that she is.
Donnie Darko
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Treat a slut like a princess and a princess like a slut.
When they love you (i.e. have high interest level, i.e. are attracted, i.e. have orgasms with you) they are always faithful, at least in their heart and mind.
With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.
With my current girl, if you told me she slept with 1000 men (or some dark secret), I'd say "that must be a prerequisite for such a cool girl". In other words, their past doesn't define them. They define their past.