"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should you tell her about the "pill"?

jhonny9546

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When you have the chance to meet your desired woman, sometimes you want her to understand "how it works," or you may wonder if she could be aware of it.

Redpill, Blackpill—call it what you want.

Should you ever have a serious conversation with your woman and discuss all this content? This could help her understand both your position and hers, see the relationship with all its nuances, and gain a better understanding of behaviors and more. Will this lead to a better wellbeing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pipeman84

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Going by the title, I thought this was about birth control pill. :D

No, I wouldn't mention anything about the pills ... would just make you look like a weirdo to any normal woman. Imagine the conversation, she asks what this is all about and you mention these are movements supposedly started to empower men. They are lead by some grifters who talk big and act all macho on YouTube but in reality they are just the opposite of what they're preaching ... married to an older woman, single, dating single moms, hoes who disrespect them during live podcast transmission, etc.

Let your actions do the talking for you.
 

Lotus Effect

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When you have the chance to meet your desired woman, sometimes you want her to understand "how it works," or you may wonder if she could be aware of it.

Redpill, Blackpill—call it what you want.

Should you ever have a serious conversation with your woman and discuss all this content? This could help her understand both your position and hers, see the relationship with all its nuances, and gain a better understanding of behaviors and more. Will this lead to a better wellbeing?
You should only talk about things you have knowledge on, OP.

Even tho you know about the pill, you are far away from understanding it.

If you understood it, you’d know that the answer to your question is, ‘No’.
 

The Duke

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I don't recommend it. I've went down that road and all it did was backfire on me. I tell very few males about it.

A woman no matter how much she loves you will never be your best friend.
 

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Never mention the red pill or the black pill by name with women. You also don't want to talk about too many of the concepts of the red and black pills with women either.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When you have the chance to meet your desired woman, sometimes you want her to understand "how it works," or you may wonder if she could be aware of it.

Redpill, Blackpill—call it what you want.

Should you ever have a serious conversation with your woman and discuss all this content? This could help her understand both your position and hers, see the relationship with all its nuances, and gain a better understanding of behaviors and more. Will this lead to a better wellbeing?
No! Don't tell her!
 
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