"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should you tell her about the "pill"?

jhonny9546

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When you have the chance to meet your desired woman, sometimes you want her to understand "how it works," or you may wonder if she could be aware of it.

Redpill, Blackpill—call it what you want.

Should you ever have a serious conversation with your woman and discuss all this content? This could help her understand both your position and hers, see the relationship with all its nuances, and gain a better understanding of behaviors and more. Will this lead to a better wellbeing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pipeman84

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Going by the title, I thought this was about birth control pill. :D

No, I wouldn't mention anything about the pills ... would just make you look like a weirdo to any normal woman. Imagine the conversation, she asks what this is all about and you mention these are movements supposedly started to empower men. They are lead by some grifters who talk big and act all macho on YouTube but in reality they are just the opposite of what they're preaching ... married to an older woman, single, dating single moms, hoes who disrespect them during live podcast transmission, etc.

Let your actions do the talking for you.
 

Lotus Effect

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When you have the chance to meet your desired woman, sometimes you want her to understand "how it works," or you may wonder if she could be aware of it.

Redpill, Blackpill—call it what you want.

Should you ever have a serious conversation with your woman and discuss all this content? This could help her understand both your position and hers, see the relationship with all its nuances, and gain a better understanding of behaviors and more. Will this lead to a better wellbeing?
You should only talk about things you have knowledge on, OP.

Even tho you know about the pill, you are far away from understanding it.

If you understood it, you’d know that the answer to your question is, ‘No’.
 

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I don't recommend it. I've went down that road and all it did was backfire on me. I tell very few males about it.

A woman no matter how much she loves you will never be your best friend.
 

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Never mention the red pill or the black pill by name with women. You also don't want to talk about too many of the concepts of the red and black pills with women either.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When you have the chance to meet your desired woman, sometimes you want her to understand "how it works," or you may wonder if she could be aware of it.

Redpill, Blackpill—call it what you want.

Should you ever have a serious conversation with your woman and discuss all this content? This could help her understand both your position and hers, see the relationship with all its nuances, and gain a better understanding of behaviors and more. Will this lead to a better wellbeing?
No! Don't tell her!
 
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