Dante420
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Should you spend the night over her house if she asks you to?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Should You Spend the Night?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BananaSmile
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Is this on the fone or after ur done?
Dante420
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After, if you sleep with her after doesn't that give off all the wrong impressions?BananaSmile said:
SharinganUser
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No it just means your tired and want to get some sleep.Dante420 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mustfirstregister
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I think you should not because it's a test.
Situational.
If she asks you to, then you can.
If you are already hittin it, then you can, but just don't make it an every night thing.
You cannot however ask her to spend the night with her if she doesn't suggest it and your not already tappin it.
If she asks you to, then you can.
If you are already hittin it, then you can, but just don't make it an every night thing.
You cannot however ask her to spend the night with her if she doesn't suggest it and your not already tappin it.
thedude4242
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no need to sleep over if your getting the vagina. if you get enough vagina and go ahead and leave. if you have to stay over night to get vagina then maybe. if you are done getting vagina hang out with her for about a half hour and act like you care then say well I got get up early tomorrow and make some excuse.
Johnny_Kage
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Depends on what you want and what you already got from her.
Did you fvck her yet? If no, then sleep over and fvck her.
If yes,
- and you just want to keep it casual, then don't sleep over
- and you want to make it more serious, then sleep over
JK
Did you fvck her yet? If no, then sleep over and fvck her.
If yes,
- and you just want to keep it casual, then don't sleep over
- and you want to make it more serious, then sleep over
JK
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Poonani Maker
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I read every fin post of his, don't remember him saying that, but I do remember "Trust your gut."J. Darko said:
ThatMysteriousGuy
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Yes, of course. And, make a move. Don't blabber to her for hours on end. Don't talk much, casually pay attention to what's going on, and then make your move.
Don't expect a second chance, ever, she wanted you alone with her overnight the first time. Make your move and if she rejects it don't make a big deal out of it and don't apologize. If you're having a problem with being (it's pretend) upset, distract and go back to watching the movie or whatever.
Don't expect a second chance, ever, she wanted you alone with her overnight the first time. Make your move and if she rejects it don't make a big deal out of it and don't apologize. If you're having a problem with being (it's pretend) upset, distract and go back to watching the movie or whatever.