Dante420
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Should you spend the night over her house if she asks you to?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Should You Spend the Night?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BananaSmile
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Is this on the fone or after ur done?
Dante420
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After, if you sleep with her after doesn't that give off all the wrong impressions?BananaSmile said:
SharinganUser
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No it just means your tired and want to get some sleep.Dante420 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mustfirstregister
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I think you should not because it's a test.
Situational.
If she asks you to, then you can.
If you are already hittin it, then you can, but just don't make it an every night thing.
You cannot however ask her to spend the night with her if she doesn't suggest it and your not already tappin it.
If she asks you to, then you can.
If you are already hittin it, then you can, but just don't make it an every night thing.
You cannot however ask her to spend the night with her if she doesn't suggest it and your not already tappin it.
thedude4242
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no need to sleep over if your getting the vagina. if you get enough vagina and go ahead and leave. if you have to stay over night to get vagina then maybe. if you are done getting vagina hang out with her for about a half hour and act like you care then say well I got get up early tomorrow and make some excuse.
Johnny_Kage
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Depends on what you want and what you already got from her.
Did you fvck her yet? If no, then sleep over and fvck her.
If yes,
- and you just want to keep it casual, then don't sleep over
- and you want to make it more serious, then sleep over
JK
Did you fvck her yet? If no, then sleep over and fvck her.
If yes,
- and you just want to keep it casual, then don't sleep over
- and you want to make it more serious, then sleep over
JK
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Poonani Maker
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I read every fin post of his, don't remember him saying that, but I do remember "Trust your gut."J. Darko said:
ThatMysteriousGuy
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Yes, of course. And, make a move. Don't blabber to her for hours on end. Don't talk much, casually pay attention to what's going on, and then make your move.
Don't expect a second chance, ever, she wanted you alone with her overnight the first time. Make your move and if she rejects it don't make a big deal out of it and don't apologize. If you're having a problem with being (it's pretend) upset, distract and go back to watching the movie or whatever.
Don't expect a second chance, ever, she wanted you alone with her overnight the first time. Make your move and if she rejects it don't make a big deal out of it and don't apologize. If you're having a problem with being (it's pretend) upset, distract and go back to watching the movie or whatever.