Dante420
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Should you spend the night over her house if she asks you to?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Should You Spend the Night?
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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Is this on the fone or after ur done?
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After, if you sleep with her after doesn't that give off all the wrong impressions?BananaSmile said:
SharinganUser
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No it just means your tired and want to get some sleep.Dante420 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mustfirstregister
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I think you should not because it's a test.
Situational.
If she asks you to, then you can.
If you are already hittin it, then you can, but just don't make it an every night thing.
You cannot however ask her to spend the night with her if she doesn't suggest it and your not already tappin it.
If she asks you to, then you can.
If you are already hittin it, then you can, but just don't make it an every night thing.
You cannot however ask her to spend the night with her if she doesn't suggest it and your not already tappin it.
thedude4242
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no need to sleep over if your getting the vagina. if you get enough vagina and go ahead and leave. if you have to stay over night to get vagina then maybe. if you are done getting vagina hang out with her for about a half hour and act like you care then say well I got get up early tomorrow and make some excuse.
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Depends on what you want and what you already got from her.
Did you fvck her yet? If no, then sleep over and fvck her.
If yes,
- and you just want to keep it casual, then don't sleep over
- and you want to make it more serious, then sleep over
JK
Did you fvck her yet? If no, then sleep over and fvck her.
If yes,
- and you just want to keep it casual, then don't sleep over
- and you want to make it more serious, then sleep over
JK
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I read every fin post of his, don't remember him saying that, but I do remember "Trust your gut."J. Darko said:
ThatMysteriousGuy
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Yes, of course. And, make a move. Don't blabber to her for hours on end. Don't talk much, casually pay attention to what's going on, and then make your move.
Don't expect a second chance, ever, she wanted you alone with her overnight the first time. Make your move and if she rejects it don't make a big deal out of it and don't apologize. If you're having a problem with being (it's pretend) upset, distract and go back to watching the movie or whatever.
Don't expect a second chance, ever, she wanted you alone with her overnight the first time. Make your move and if she rejects it don't make a big deal out of it and don't apologize. If you're having a problem with being (it's pretend) upset, distract and go back to watching the movie or whatever.