If a girl texts you something like good nite should you reply back? I need to be more of a challenge to this girl so i debate whether or not i should reply always. basically we dated for a little but still hang out a couple of times a week. i know she doesnt see me as a challenge anymore. i just feel its a little too much d1ch headish not replying to her going out of her way to say good night to me. although it could be a mass text. hahah.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should you reply to every text message?
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My ex girlfriend would get upset if I didn't reply to her texts. I would here and there. Sometimes, I couldnt reply to her right away. She would think I was ignoring her, not wanting to talk to her, or mad at her and whatever else. Just reply if you want it doesn't really matter. Aslong as she is the 1 texting you all the time.
do not respond back to unimportant messages. idle minded texts do not get a reply from meMKS82 said:If a girl texts you something like good nite should you reply back? I need to be more of a challenge to this girl so i debate whether or not i should reply always. basically we dated for a little but still hang out a couple of times a week. i know she doesnt see me as a challenge anymore. i just feel its a little too much d1ch headish not replying to her going out of her way to say good night to me. although it could be a mass text. hahah.
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what i do is, if what she says interests me, or is asking a question, i reply.
if it's just a statement that i don't care about, i don't.
simple
if it's just a statement that i don't care about, i don't.
simple
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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I usually don't hold a text message convo for more than 10 messages. Not because I'm keeping count, just that I think it's too long. And if she texts me saying stuff like "entertain me" or stuff like that, I don't even respond to it.