If a girl texts you something like good nite should you reply back? I need to be more of a challenge to this girl so i debate whether or not i should reply always. basically we dated for a little but still hang out a couple of times a week. i know she doesnt see me as a challenge anymore. i just feel its a little too much d1ch headish not replying to her going out of her way to say good night to me. although it could be a mass text. hahah.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Should you reply to every text message?
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