If a girl texts you something like good nite should you reply back? I need to be more of a challenge to this girl so i debate whether or not i should reply always. basically we dated for a little but still hang out a couple of times a week. i know she doesnt see me as a challenge anymore. i just feel its a little too much d1ch headish not replying to her going out of her way to say good night to me. although it could be a mass text. hahah.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Should you reply to every text message?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
justiceseeker
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My ex girlfriend would get upset if I didn't reply to her texts. I would here and there. Sometimes, I couldnt reply to her right away. She would think I was ignoring her, not wanting to talk to her, or mad at her and whatever else. Just reply if you want it doesn't really matter. Aslong as she is the 1 texting you all the time.
do not respond back to unimportant messages. idle minded texts do not get a reply from meMKS82 said:If a girl texts you something like good nite should you reply back? I need to be more of a challenge to this girl so i debate whether or not i should reply always. basically we dated for a little but still hang out a couple of times a week. i know she doesnt see me as a challenge anymore. i just feel its a little too much d1ch headish not replying to her going out of her way to say good night to me. although it could be a mass text. hahah.
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what i do is, if what she says interests me, or is asking a question, i reply.
if it's just a statement that i don't care about, i don't.
simple
if it's just a statement that i don't care about, i don't.
simple
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War Against Betaism
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I usually don't hold a text message convo for more than 10 messages. Not because I'm keeping count, just that I think it's too long. And if she texts me saying stuff like "entertain me" or stuff like that, I don't even respond to it.