"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should you receive or send the last text.

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When texting a girl, should you receive or send the last text? The discussion is simply about that, not about texting protocol in general. Thank you. :box:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've always heard that you should receive the last one to maintain control. Also it gives you more of an excuse to send the first one next time.
 
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I always wondered this. I purposely am always last now, but I've been so damn bored this summer that I'm now the first to text.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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omg! All these rules AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH! Why can't life be simple?
 
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It doesnt matter, but if its gonna be ur last text, its polite to say i gotta go, will catch up with you another time, that way she can expect not to hear from u for a while and wont get her knockers in a twist over it.
 
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Are we now social ROBOTS that operate on some sort of protocols? Why can't we reason and know that when to respond and when not to respond to test messages. People read too much into this DJ thing and it is affecting a lot of people here. Text her when you want to. If your text requires a response and he/she did not respond, don't text him/her back asking why she did not respond. It could be that she is busy, did not feel like texting you back.
 
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