"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should you receive or send the last text.

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When texting a girl, should you receive or send the last text? The discussion is simply about that, not about texting protocol in general. Thank you. :box:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've always heard that you should receive the last one to maintain control. Also it gives you more of an excuse to send the first one next time.
 
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I always wondered this. I purposely am always last now, but I've been so damn bored this summer that I'm now the first to text.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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omg! All these rules AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH! Why can't life be simple?
 
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It doesnt matter, but if its gonna be ur last text, its polite to say i gotta go, will catch up with you another time, that way she can expect not to hear from u for a while and wont get her knockers in a twist over it.
 
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Are we now social ROBOTS that operate on some sort of protocols? Why can't we reason and know that when to respond and when not to respond to test messages. People read too much into this DJ thing and it is affecting a lot of people here. Text her when you want to. If your text requires a response and he/she did not respond, don't text him/her back asking why she did not respond. It could be that she is busy, did not feel like texting you back.
 
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