"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should you receive or send the last text.

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When texting a girl, should you receive or send the last text? The discussion is simply about that, not about texting protocol in general. Thank you. :box:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've always heard that you should receive the last one to maintain control. Also it gives you more of an excuse to send the first one next time.
 
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I always wondered this. I purposely am always last now, but I've been so damn bored this summer that I'm now the first to text.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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omg! All these rules AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH! Why can't life be simple?
 
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It doesnt matter, but if its gonna be ur last text, its polite to say i gotta go, will catch up with you another time, that way she can expect not to hear from u for a while and wont get her knockers in a twist over it.
 
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Are we now social ROBOTS that operate on some sort of protocols? Why can't we reason and know that when to respond and when not to respond to test messages. People read too much into this DJ thing and it is affecting a lot of people here. Text her when you want to. If your text requires a response and he/she did not respond, don't text him/her back asking why she did not respond. It could be that she is busy, did not feel like texting you back.
 
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