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Should you ever compliment a girl on her looks?

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All women are insecure, some more than others. You should compliment a woman's looks if she is worthy of a compliment and if she has earned it by her actions towards you.

If you do think she's pretty, and you think it would help address some insecurity that she has shown, and you do want to help her be a better match for you. Then yes you should say it.

Never say it as part of game, never say it as part of a throwaway line. Telling a woman she's pretty to earn her favor does not work, you just feed her ego and diminish your own value

Edit: I think that in general, deeply insecure people usually don't believe it when they're told they are attractive, even if they are. This is why using it as a pickup line is doomed to failure, it comes across as patronizing.
 

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I am serious with this question.... I always have it in my head that when you compliment a girl's appearance you were lowering your value and also basically giving her power by telegraphing too much interest.

I guess this question is more towards the early dating phase.... If you go on a first date or meet with a girl should you ever compliment her appearance?

I never do but I wonder if it could ever be advantageous?
It depends, I could smack on some girls tight azz, give her an appreciative smirk and then compliment her on it's tight-ness or I could compliment another girl on how her makeover made my day so much brighter.

It all depends on my mood.
 

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All women are insecure, some more than others. You should compliment a woman's looks if she is worthy of a compliment and if she has earned it by her actions towards you.

If you do think she's pretty, and you think it would help address some insecurity that she has shown, and you do want to help her be a better match for you. Then yes you should say it.

Never say it as part of game, never say it as part of a throwaway line. Telling a woman she's pretty to earn her favor does not work, you just feed her ego and diminish your own value

Edit: I think that in general, deeply insecure people usually don't believe it when they're told they are attractive, even if they are. This is why using it as a pickup line is doomed to failure, it comes across as patronizing.
You know what.. this is what I always thought... if a woman is insecure about her looks you can feign your physical desire for her and it would work. I haven't found this to be the case... usually if girls are insecure about their looks nothing you say will let them believe otherwise.

I totally forgot but there is actually an area I do compliment a woman's looks as a opener and it does work...... ONLINE DATING.

This is mainly because your initial dialogue online doesn't matter as girls only care if they are attracted to your photos or not.
 

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only compliment her actual beauty well into the relationship after 6 or 7 dates. but you can compliment girls indirectly and even add a touch of goofiness to it or just plain stupidity but as long as it's genuine. EX: i once was ordering coffee at the shop. big tits, big ass. big eyes. bubbly blonde i say

"i like your shirt it makes you look like you work on a ship"
she giggled and i could see she was longing for me to ask her out later on in the day she had that look like so 'are you gonna ask me out" whilst tilting her head and looking at me. of course at the time i was traveling and living in my car so I didn't exactly know what to do i was just getting my reps in finding out what works.
 
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I'm wondering if complimenting a woman's looks could work if you are in a profession where you might be seen as a good judge of it..

For example a model photographer? Thoughts?
 
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