"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should you always pursue high IL girls ?

GeorgesH.Ma

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(Or is it ok to pursue a girl with a moderate IL).

Hi fellas,

Let's say I text a girl. At first her answers a pretty good, and she follows up with somethin else like, "what about you" or something.

But then she starts to be really semi-passive, she answers with short messages and does not follow-up. But she agrees to meet.

Is it useful to go about pursuing that kind of IL girl, or should I just forget about it and use my time to find other plates with better IL ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

DEEZEDBRAH

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I gave the script before.

If X then Y.

It's like programming. You run a loop. I pull or I next. If flakey, ghost, anything but Dtf, I next. Then, go get more baeeeeeee. Repeat.

As a young man, in my teens, it was pickup 7nights a week. As a fully grown man on my purpose, I execute. I take the Julien blanc 3sets minimum per day. I take the AMS approach in choosing signals IF aesthetic. You still must pursue. You must approach. The difference is that, time is money. You have this finite life. Don't waste your time.


She sounds low interest. You can throw up the hail Mary. Text. Casual hang or next.
 

GeorgesH.Ma

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Sounds good, thanks man. Actually this is what I needed to hear. Will check out that Julien Blanc's stuff.
 
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