"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should you always pursue high IL girls ?

GeorgesH.Ma

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(Or is it ok to pursue a girl with a moderate IL).

Hi fellas,

Let's say I text a girl. At first her answers a pretty good, and she follows up with somethin else like, "what about you" or something.

But then she starts to be really semi-passive, she answers with short messages and does not follow-up. But she agrees to meet.

Is it useful to go about pursuing that kind of IL girl, or should I just forget about it and use my time to find other plates with better IL ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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I gave the script before.

If X then Y.

It's like programming. You run a loop. I pull or I next. If flakey, ghost, anything but Dtf, I next. Then, go get more baeeeeeee. Repeat.

As a young man, in my teens, it was pickup 7nights a week. As a fully grown man on my purpose, I execute. I take the Julien blanc 3sets minimum per day. I take the AMS approach in choosing signals IF aesthetic. You still must pursue. You must approach. The difference is that, time is money. You have this finite life. Don't waste your time.


She sounds low interest. You can throw up the hail Mary. Text. Casual hang or next.
 

GeorgesH.Ma

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Sounds good, thanks man. Actually this is what I needed to hear. Will check out that Julien Blanc's stuff.
 
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