Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should the blue look and feel return?

Should the blue theme from the old forum be used again?

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Atom Smasher

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You can change the overall look and feel of the forum in your preferences. Choosing the colors removes the 100% stretch and causes the forum to format to around 900 pixels wide or so.
 

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Borders need to be more defined, its currently pretty hard to tell whose post belongs to whom. Also, I think putting the username up above the avatar will help clear things up even more.
 

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The "blue" is better for me too. I kinda liked the old look that we had on this forum...In the end it is about content and not looks so keep up the work
 

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RIP green dots. ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■

We'll definitely miss our little laughing icon, the one where the guy is slamming his fist down. And good riddance to the cheerleader and the flowers.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It may come back. There are millions of options on this site that the administration can still implement. You can still expect changes during the next few months.
 

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TBH, I like this new minimal/clean look. To each their own, I suppose.
 

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Borders need to be more defined, its currently pretty hard to tell whose post belongs to whom. Also, I think putting the username up above the avatar will help clear things up even more.
Yeah, I disagree with the second part though, just adding some space between different posts would help.


Also tried the blue theme and it looks great, but the main body still looks white and as stated by smasher it's slightly hard to read (combined with the current font)
 

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I liked the old themes better, such as Tigra... This'll take some getting used to.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First gotta thank you guys for the new forum, it's much better and more accessible than the old one.

I'm' talking about the backgrounds and post body. The current theme lacks contrast and is slightly hard to read and navigate.

Examples

https://0.s3.envato.com/files/108662338/02_xenforo_metro_forumhome_modern.png

https://brivium.com/attachments/05_desktop_view-png.7812/

http://www.audentio.com/demo/xf/index.php?threads/example-thread.15/

http://xf1.artodia.com/demo.php?demo=xf&id=elegance2
I like the first link, the metro blue theme. It feels like a mix of old and new. I also like that its more square, like the old forum. The new forum has a lot of rounded edges that Im not a fan of at the moment.
 

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Well trying to read the "quotes" just burned my eyeballs. Maybe a color change there in that scheme or whatever.

And, hey can swear yet? **** **** **** balls.
 

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Also, quick browse through the forum and I can't tell what threads I've posted/conversated in. Am I missing something?

***** ***** ass *** ****
 

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RIP green dots. ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■

We'll definitely miss our little laughing icon, the one where the guy is slamming his fist down. And good riddance to the cheerleader and the flowers.
Agree, the "crackup" laughing icon should come back at least as an option...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Also, quick browse through the forum and I can't tell what threads I've posted/conversated in. Am I missing something?

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Go scroll up to the top and you will see forums, your user name, inbox and alerts. Click on your user name. A box will come down. Click on your content. It will all come up.
 

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Also, quick browse through the forum and I can't tell what threads I've posted/conversated in. Am I missing something?

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If you look at the Avatar for the thread, you will see your own "sub-avatar" in the lower right section of the main one. This indicates that you've posted in that thread.
 

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If you look at the Avatar for the thread, you will see your own "sub-avatar" in the lower right section of the main one. This indicates that you've posted in that thread.
I see that now. I don't think it works for older posts though, at least not what I'm seeing.
 

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Hey guys, any updates on aesthetics changes? It's a bit hard to read due to extremely bright backgrounds. I would appreciate it if you tweak the default theme, thanks.
 

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You have a few options on changing the forum to your liking. Scroll all the way down and you should see it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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