"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should society feel for women who get beat up their brutish, thuggish men?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this p0rn star that got beat up by her MMA fighter and it to me thinking ...

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articl...-porn-world-unites-over-a-fallen-comrade.html

So we should feel sorry for a woman who has chosen to be with a man whose very essence screams out violence when he acts violent towards her? Isn't this a case of a woman going for a "bad boy" and then simply having that bad boy act bad towards her? This woman could have attracted any nice beta male that had expressed his sexuality by watching her in her videos while "self stimulating", and would have leapt at the chance to be able to marry her and get intimate access to her.

But no, she decided to go for a dangerous bad boy and when things started to fall apart, he lashed out in the way that a violent bad boy does. And so such beta men who have spurned by her should feel sorry for her? :cuss:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
Well yeah see your point,but I can't see myself getting too beat up about the undoubted revenge that Society will take on this Mongrel.
 

Robert28

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Why should I care about the stupid choices someone else makes? If you want to date someone like that then that's all on you, don't go crying about it to people that don't care.
 

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So she says he's beaten her in the past many times, yet still stayed with him?

There is a major disconnect here, they must both be incredibly socially underdeveloped to stay together despite obvious and consistent huge incompatibilities.

Some dudes like women who are actors, dancers, or entertainers...the ones I've encountered seem to have some glaring underlying social problems - no need to bring that into my life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AttackFormation

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Why exactly should we feel bad for a girl who gets involved with a violent thug and then stays with him? I feel bad for society, not her, because she's further promoting this image as what you want to be to get p*ssy. Women are too stupid to understand the concept but they CREATE these men because men do what gets them p*ssy.
 
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