"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should society feel for women who get beat up their brutish, thuggish men?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this p0rn star that got beat up by her MMA fighter and it to me thinking ...

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articl...-porn-world-unites-over-a-fallen-comrade.html

So we should feel sorry for a woman who has chosen to be with a man whose very essence screams out violence when he acts violent towards her? Isn't this a case of a woman going for a "bad boy" and then simply having that bad boy act bad towards her? This woman could have attracted any nice beta male that had expressed his sexuality by watching her in her videos while "self stimulating", and would have leapt at the chance to be able to marry her and get intimate access to her.

But no, she decided to go for a dangerous bad boy and when things started to fall apart, he lashed out in the way that a violent bad boy does. And so such beta men who have spurned by her should feel sorry for her? :cuss:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
Well yeah see your point,but I can't see myself getting too beat up about the undoubted revenge that Society will take on this Mongrel.
 

Robert28

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Why should I care about the stupid choices someone else makes? If you want to date someone like that then that's all on you, don't go crying about it to people that don't care.
 

Moonlounger

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So she says he's beaten her in the past many times, yet still stayed with him?

There is a major disconnect here, they must both be incredibly socially underdeveloped to stay together despite obvious and consistent huge incompatibilities.

Some dudes like women who are actors, dancers, or entertainers...the ones I've encountered seem to have some glaring underlying social problems - no need to bring that into my life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AttackFormation

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Why exactly should we feel bad for a girl who gets involved with a violent thug and then stays with him? I feel bad for society, not her, because she's further promoting this image as what you want to be to get p*ssy. Women are too stupid to understand the concept but they CREATE these men because men do what gets them p*ssy.
 
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