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Should society feel for women who get beat up their brutish, thuggish men?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this p0rn star that got beat up by her MMA fighter and it to me thinking ...

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articl...-porn-world-unites-over-a-fallen-comrade.html

So we should feel sorry for a woman who has chosen to be with a man whose very essence screams out violence when he acts violent towards her? Isn't this a case of a woman going for a "bad boy" and then simply having that bad boy act bad towards her? This woman could have attracted any nice beta male that had expressed his sexuality by watching her in her videos while "self stimulating", and would have leapt at the chance to be able to marry her and get intimate access to her.

But no, she decided to go for a dangerous bad boy and when things started to fall apart, he lashed out in the way that a violent bad boy does. And so such beta men who have spurned by her should feel sorry for her? :cuss:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
Well yeah see your point,but I can't see myself getting too beat up about the undoubted revenge that Society will take on this Mongrel.
 

Robert28

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Why should I care about the stupid choices someone else makes? If you want to date someone like that then that's all on you, don't go crying about it to people that don't care.
 

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So she says he's beaten her in the past many times, yet still stayed with him?

There is a major disconnect here, they must both be incredibly socially underdeveloped to stay together despite obvious and consistent huge incompatibilities.

Some dudes like women who are actors, dancers, or entertainers...the ones I've encountered seem to have some glaring underlying social problems - no need to bring that into my life.
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AttackFormation

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Why exactly should we feel bad for a girl who gets involved with a violent thug and then stays with him? I feel bad for society, not her, because she's further promoting this image as what you want to be to get p*ssy. Women are too stupid to understand the concept but they CREATE these men because men do what gets them p*ssy.
 
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