That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is not much of an SMV hit. By the time women have hit 30 for instance, they have 10-15 years of dating experience, and if they don't have a 5 year relationship to their names, they probably have a big notch count. Both the never marrieds and divorcees in their 30s and beyond who find themselves single usually have big notch counts to their names.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lol.
In many cases the divorce was caused by the man going back to acting AFC and letting himself go. Ever see those hot late 30 year old MILFs with 300 lb dudes? You think she wants to see that naked? You think she wants 2 minutes of sex until he is so out of breath he can't perform anymore?This article seems to say so:
Why Single Guys Should Go for Single Moms
Guys. Dating can be a *****, but that doesn’t mean you have to go out with one. Let me offer some practical advice to those of you who are…medium.com
“relationship carry-on”?
Of course, the author chick can't help herself about who will be most important in the marriage:
my opinion:
7. Divorce proves there was at one time a successful relationship.This article seems to say so:
Why Single Guys Should Go for Single Moms
Guys. Dating can be a *****, but that doesn’t mean you have to go out with one. Let me offer some practical advice to those of you who are…
“relationship carry-on”?
Of course, the author chick can't help herself about who will be most important in the marriage:
my opinion:
Most attractive older women in their late 30s/early 40s are not married to grostequely obese, 300 lb guys.
I agree completely. I think a lot of people (both sexes) go into marriages because they think it is the next logical step, or that's how it was done in their parents'/grandparents' generation, or they see their siblings or friends doing it and they think they should do it. They don't realize what an endeavor it is.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
'single daddies should go for single mommies'This article seems to say so:
Why Single Guys Should Go for Single Moms
Guys. Dating can be a *****, but that doesn’t mean you have to go out with one. Let me offer some practical advice to those of you who are…
“relationship carry-on”?
Of course, the author chick can't help herself about who will be most important in the marriage:
my opinion:
She saw the guy as a winning lottery ticket. She cashed in her winnings then discarded him