should my girl do this?

[aliasguy]

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TheHumanist wrote:

"Interesting... she is going to a bar with the girls.. She asked for permission, but of course you can't. This is where trust is required. Outside your watchful eye, you have to believe she is cares as much as you do.

Then LMS (follow by icecream, wayword, aliasguy, etc.) comes and says that if she going to be loyal, she would have never wanted to go to a bar in the first place. If she is, her nature is corrupted even if she asks. Hmm..."
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I never said that "...if she going to be loyal, she would have never wanted to go..."

I actively encouraged the OP to not object to her going.


If she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. If not, not. I'm all in favor of not being possessive or "controlling." Don't lump me in with LMS, et al.

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[ducaro]

she is going to the bar, cuz she wants to have some fun...and that 'fun' has a trace of attention whorism to it, whether you'd like to believe it or not. after all no woman is an angel You just allow her to go and always remember to prepare yourself for anything. simple.

 

[Last Man Standing]

You just allow her to go and always remember to prepare yourself for anything. simple.

Disrespect should never be allowed!!!

Weak, nice name BTW , do not call her "your" girl, because she is not under your lead!!!

 

[DonJuan11]

A woman doesn't go to a bar without her man ---- period!!!! (Rather exclamation point!) She knows this!! Modern women try to act like they don't know the answer but they already do know the answer -- that is why she asked you if you minded!!! She knows it's not right but she does it anyway!! What does this tell you?? It's all about her wants at the expense of your disrespect!!!

Quit being a fool - it bothers you and all men who care about their girl. Men prey on woman at bars because we assume they're there, at the bar, because they are making themselves available to us!!!! Women know this!!! The question is why don't you know???

Wow. Then I guess your girlfriend can only work with girls, eat lunch with girls, be on the train with girls, and go to an all girls school. I hope your buddies never ask you to go to a bar to watch the football game, your gf could get worried that you would sleep the first tight-a$$ girl there.

Let her do what she wants. If I wanted to go a bar with my buddies and my girl said no, I would be so angry and bitter. Not everyone wants to have sex all the time in every environment.