teacha
Senior Don Juan
http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=351992Should men pay for women?
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I'm a 21 year old female and openly admit, I like being paid for in situations such as drink dates etc. It makes me feel special and looked after. I guess I am kind of used to it. But I'm worried this isn't right and I'm sexist?
I have recently been dating a guy i met at the end of my University term. We are now back in our home towns which are an hour away. We've been hooking up one-two months. Anyway I got the train down to his home to visit him which cost me £20 (I believe this is about $30) he took me to the cinemas and point blank refused to pay for me (would have cost him £5 or $7). He said he never pays for anything for girls. I could understand this if we were still in our university city and we were both broke. But I was mad about this because I'd spent money and made effort with regards to getting the train down. He also took me for one drink beforehand and wouldn't pay for the drink. He said what's the point of guys buying girls anything it doesn't make them like the guy any more? But I feel this made me like HIM less. But am i just being outdated and sexist?
He also had no food in his house so before we went to the cinemas he took me to a local supermarket where I paid for my own dinner. I would also like to add that I am currently unemployed having just graduated and he is in full time employment.
if I ever meet this guy, im buying him a beer (no homo).