"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should it be illegal to call a woman fat?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All laws against hate speech have been thrown out in US courts due to the First Amendment. But other, more liberal countries don't have a bill of rights that includes free speech. Canada has a civil tort of "insult," and Germany has an actual criminal statute against insult that was directed at neo-nazis. So in a sense, it is probably already illegal to call women fat, at least in some parts of the world.
 

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why should it be illegal to call a fat person fat, an old person old, a pretty person pretty etc? this is retarded. people are afraid of words....
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
why should it be illegal to call a fat person fat, an old person old, a pretty person pretty etc? this is retarded. people are afraid of words....
Who are you calling "retarded"?!? :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bokanovsky said:
No, it does not.
Sorry, you're right. Upon further reading, it looks like those cases were government fines, and then the government just gave the money to the people complaining. So the end result is the same as a civil suit. They call it "inciting hatred" and have used it against people who are anti-gay. Being anti-fat chicks will be next.
 

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Dear MDJ,
So they are going to make the word fat a dreadful insult...Good it will just give the word,like other Old Saxon Expletives more power not less!
 

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If anything should be illegal it's all the facebook comments lying to fat chicks about them looking good
 

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mrRuckus said:
If anything should be illegal it's all the facebook comments lying to fat chicks about them looking good
my opinion of your reply: :up: :yes:
 

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mrRuckus said:
If anything should be illegal it's all the facebook comments lying to fat chicks about them looking good
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this. same with all the hate words. they are words ffs. why should anyone feel offended by words, especially if they are true? if not else, they should be thankful.
i know i was fat for 3 years. yes, FAT. not "overweight". i had 2 ways to go:

1. join a "fat power" movement, and try to convince (in vein) others to love me and my lard. then live in a dream world of flying whales and fat unicorns. and become offended by others saying the word "fat" because it awakened my self consciousness and it damaged my carefully built lies about reality.

2. hit the gym and eat less, and actually look better.

i chose door number 2 :) and not regretting it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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