Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I?

Willspearec

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There's this girl at school who I think is interested, but I'm not sure. Her body language says that she isn't. But everytime she looks at me her eyes say otherwise. Mixed message? I have no clue if she's interested. She also has quite a bit of guy friends, but she's single. What does that tell about her? Idk.
Question: Should I try and approach her? It wont be easy since she constantly surrounded by either other guys, or her own friends.

Help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KillaCam

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Attention wh0re. Craves the flirtation, digs the attention, and can't do much else.

If you're insistent on having her, try and isolate her, call her bluff, and go for the kill. But attention wh0res aren't usually worth the effort.
 

djweses89

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doesnt acually mean shes a ***** she could be most likley is but what you could do find a time when all those guys arnt around her or not as many or have a lil get together at your house get her to come that way you have controll over everything plenty of time to talk to her alone haha and if shes a ***** plenty of time to get some action in. but also just talk to her if you do the things right then you should be able to make her more intrested in you than any of the other guys. but most likley like the guy above me said shes probley a ***** if so dont try to make a relationship out of it just beat it and leave it
 

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just go up to her dude and talk to her
thats your first step
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djweses89

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oh yea read the article called A Little Patience talks about not to freak out if you dont get that body language at first all that just means its taking her time to soak it all in that a guy like you is acually trying to hook up wit her. and if it is she is just a tease or dont like you then screw it move on to the next girl
 

Willspearec

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Hey thanx for the article. That might explain some things. But now I'm not so sure that she's interested. I could have talked to this girl today, but I just didnt want to, maybe I didnt want to feel like the Rick person.Idk. I think she's not in my league. I only see her in the hall.and maybe I'm overthinking some stuff. She's constantly interacting with a bunch of guys. Yet she's single. Idk.
Just a question how would I know if she's a tease?
 

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...Qucik question? HAve you ever talked to her? lol, I mean I look at a lot of girls and they look at me, doesn't mean they want me lol. It's just common sense, if you can't tell when a girl wants you or if she's flirting with you read the high school bible it will help you for now.
 

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Will, ur totally over thinkin, man. jus walk up to her whens she's alone and talk to her. there has to be at least one time when she's not surrounded by other dudes. coming up to her when she's surrounded....dont take the chance. u will most likely fail to get her attention and be left out of the loop of conversation and look like an idiot if u yell, since ur competing with a bunch of other dudes who r her friends. but jus look for a time when she is all alone, then jus walk up to her, and do ur thing. good luck,lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Willspearec

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She's never alone, the times that I see her. And I've decided that she's not in my league. And I'm not going to risk my dignity trying to find out if she is or not. I'm just surprised that she's single.
 
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