"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I?

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Me and this girl had been friends for months and we're pretty close. She shows many signs saying that she is attracted (she questons me if I say hello to another girl and call them a good friend). thing is, im moving and i might not be able to see her again. She knows Im leaving and gets really depressed if I talk about it. The other day as we are walking, we stop because we have to go separate ways. We hug and by complete accident, i keep my hand around her waist bringing her close to me. We look each other in the eye and she smiles.

RIGHT THERE!!!!

Should i go in and kiss her? Does that sound like the right time? Someone help me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go for it. What you did wasnt an accident.
 
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GodOFcharm

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I guess

You know, I should. A Don Juan doesn't hesitate no matter the outcome right? It's safer to say it than actually do it though. Should I talk softly while attempting to do it? You know. To distract her?
 
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Man, your leaving soon and you 'might' not be able to see her again. Don't leave this up to chance. Go for the kiss close, if that works, try and take her back to your house.

Actually if your leaving, this is an awesome time to get in some experience, go approach 50 girls in the next week! Use a canned opener to start with, female oppinion ones tend to work best at first.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trust your gut... if you want to kiss her go for it.
 
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GodOFcharm said:
Me and this girl had been friends for months and we're pretty close. She shows many signs saying that she is attracted (she questons me if I say hello to another girl and call them a good friend). thing is, im moving and i might not be able to see her again. She knows Im leaving and gets really depressed if I talk about it. The other day as we are walking, we stop because we have to go separate ways. We hug and by complete accident, i keep my hand around her waist bringing her close to me. We look each other in the eye and she smiles.

RIGHT THERE!!!!

Should i go in and kiss her? Does that sound like the right time? Someone help me.
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Someone read The DJ Bible before making you VERY FIRST POST on How to get THIS SPECIFIC girl. Useless Thread #15

Wow, it is SO EASY to find a Useless Thread on this Forum!

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