"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I?

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Me and this girl had been friends for months and we're pretty close. She shows many signs saying that she is attracted (she questons me if I say hello to another girl and call them a good friend). thing is, im moving and i might not be able to see her again. She knows Im leaving and gets really depressed if I talk about it. The other day as we are walking, we stop because we have to go separate ways. We hug and by complete accident, i keep my hand around her waist bringing her close to me. We look each other in the eye and she smiles.

RIGHT THERE!!!!

Should i go in and kiss her? Does that sound like the right time? Someone help me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Go for it. What you did wasnt an accident.
 
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I guess

You know, I should. A Don Juan doesn't hesitate no matter the outcome right? It's safer to say it than actually do it though. Should I talk softly while attempting to do it? You know. To distract her?
 
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Man, your leaving soon and you 'might' not be able to see her again. Don't leave this up to chance. Go for the kiss close, if that works, try and take her back to your house.

Actually if your leaving, this is an awesome time to get in some experience, go approach 50 girls in the next week! Use a canned opener to start with, female oppinion ones tend to work best at first.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trust your gut... if you want to kiss her go for it.
 
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GodOFcharm said:
Me and this girl had been friends for months and we're pretty close. She shows many signs saying that she is attracted (she questons me if I say hello to another girl and call them a good friend). thing is, im moving and i might not be able to see her again. She knows Im leaving and gets really depressed if I talk about it. The other day as we are walking, we stop because we have to go separate ways. We hug and by complete accident, i keep my hand around her waist bringing her close to me. We look each other in the eye and she smiles.

RIGHT THERE!!!!

Should i go in and kiss her? Does that sound like the right time? Someone help me.
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Someone read The DJ Bible before making you VERY FIRST POST on How to get THIS SPECIFIC girl. Useless Thread #15

Wow, it is SO EASY to find a Useless Thread on this Forum!

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