Okay, here's the story. So I'm on Facebook and I'm talking to this girl from my College and we get a pretty good vibe, she's answering back and stuff. But eventually when I try to move conversation on, girl stops replying and is constantly logging on and off. Busy? Not interested? I don't even f*cking know. I just know we had a good vibe then the girl suddenly stopped responding. Few minutes later(When I stopped trying to start a convo again) the girl logs off for good. Eh... who cares though, I'll be able to game her better in person when I see her at band camp.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Should I worry about this?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She could be getting a lousy internet connection. It's happened where mine was the internet cutting me out when I was talking to a girl I liked (and who liked me as well it turned out).
So it could just be nothing. I wouldn't worry too much about it one way or the other.
So it could just be nothing. I wouldn't worry too much about it one way or the other.
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what college are you going to?
ARrocket
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ElStud said:Okay, here's the story. So I'm on Facebook and I'm talking to this girl from my College and we get a pretty good vibe, she's answering back and stuff. But eventually when I try to move conversation on, girl stops replying and is constantly logging on and off. Busy? Not interested? I don't even f*cking know. I just know we had a good vibe then the girl suddenly stopped responding. Few minutes later(When I stopped trying to start a convo again) the girl logs off for good. Eh... who cares though, I'll be able to game her better in person when I see her at band camp.
The facebook IM thingy has bugs....this happens often.
Now then, don't worry about it. She'll get back to you soon enough. You can wait a week or so then write something brief on her wall if you wish.
Now then...I'm curious. Where are you going to school this fall? And what happened to all those numbers you got during the school year? Did you call them up??
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If he says he really likes you than there is definitely something more than simply him ignoring you, because if he were ignoring you, then he wouldn't enjoy being around you and telling you he likes you.
About whether or not you two are a couple, you should talk to him and say something like "hey do you think we're a couple now?" say it casually, don't catch him off guard, lead up to the question.
About whether or not you two are a couple, you should talk to him and say something like "hey do you think we're a couple now?" say it casually, don't catch him off guard, lead up to the question.
Flabbergasped?
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ElStud, in my experience, it's hard to translate facebook conversations into the real deal. I've spoken to some girls about it, and they say that anyone that introduces themselves with "we met/talked on facebook" is immediately a creep (personally, I think so too).
My advice is, when you do meet this person, act as if you aven't talked to her before or you forgot who she is. Let her bring up the facebook thing. It's in your best interest.
My advice is, when you do meet this person, act as if you aven't talked to her before or you forgot who she is. Let her bring up the facebook thing. It's in your best interest.
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I think you should wait until you're actually at college to start hitting on girls at your college.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I tried to do the same thing he's doing, and I came to the same conclusion as this.MikeYikes122 said:I think you should wait until you're actually at college to start hitting on girls at your college.