Okay, here's the story. So I'm on Facebook and I'm talking to this girl from my College and we get a pretty good vibe, she's answering back and stuff. But eventually when I try to move conversation on, girl stops replying and is constantly logging on and off. Busy? Not interested? I don't even f*cking know. I just know we had a good vibe then the girl suddenly stopped responding. Few minutes later(When I stopped trying to start a convo again) the girl logs off for good. Eh... who cares though, I'll be able to game her better in person when I see her at band camp.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Should I worry about this?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She could be getting a lousy internet connection. It's happened where mine was the internet cutting me out when I was talking to a girl I liked (and who liked me as well it turned out).
So it could just be nothing. I wouldn't worry too much about it one way or the other.
So it could just be nothing. I wouldn't worry too much about it one way or the other.
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what college are you going to?
ARrocket
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ElStud said:Okay, here's the story. So I'm on Facebook and I'm talking to this girl from my College and we get a pretty good vibe, she's answering back and stuff. But eventually when I try to move conversation on, girl stops replying and is constantly logging on and off. Busy? Not interested? I don't even f*cking know. I just know we had a good vibe then the girl suddenly stopped responding. Few minutes later(When I stopped trying to start a convo again) the girl logs off for good. Eh... who cares though, I'll be able to game her better in person when I see her at band camp.
The facebook IM thingy has bugs....this happens often.
Now then, don't worry about it. She'll get back to you soon enough. You can wait a week or so then write something brief on her wall if you wish.
Now then...I'm curious. Where are you going to school this fall? And what happened to all those numbers you got during the school year? Did you call them up??
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If he says he really likes you than there is definitely something more than simply him ignoring you, because if he were ignoring you, then he wouldn't enjoy being around you and telling you he likes you.
About whether or not you two are a couple, you should talk to him and say something like "hey do you think we're a couple now?" say it casually, don't catch him off guard, lead up to the question.
About whether or not you two are a couple, you should talk to him and say something like "hey do you think we're a couple now?" say it casually, don't catch him off guard, lead up to the question.
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ElStud, in my experience, it's hard to translate facebook conversations into the real deal. I've spoken to some girls about it, and they say that anyone that introduces themselves with "we met/talked on facebook" is immediately a creep (personally, I think so too).
My advice is, when you do meet this person, act as if you aven't talked to her before or you forgot who she is. Let her bring up the facebook thing. It's in your best interest.
My advice is, when you do meet this person, act as if you aven't talked to her before or you forgot who she is. Let her bring up the facebook thing. It's in your best interest.
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I think you should wait until you're actually at college to start hitting on girls at your college.
ARrocket
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I tried to do the same thing he's doing, and I came to the same conclusion as this.MikeYikes122 said:I think you should wait until you're actually at college to start hitting on girls at your college.