"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I try with this other girl?

doctor1996

doctor1996

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Got her number last Thursday, haven't texted since Sunday. Conversation went like this

Me: Hey ____, let's grab a coffee Wednesday or Thursday night at 8:00 pm at _____.

Her: "Hi, I don't have this phone registered, who is this?"

Me: "It's _____ from Thursday."

Her: "Ahh hi! How are you? I'll have to check idk if it'll be possible this week"

10 hours later me: "I'm doing great, a lot of studying to do. How are you doing?"

Her: "Same, this month is gonna be crazy pretty much"

I just left it there. I could care less, but is it worth trying again? I already have this other girls number that I haven't texted yet, I got yesterday. Opinions, and tips for improving game?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lizardking82

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Chick is busy or she is flaking, doesn't matter. For now, move on. About 2 weeks later you COULD make a second invitation and if the answer is unclear there, too, then you delete number and go on with your life.

You got this, keep it up.
 
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Hit her for a fri night. She will be burned out from schoolwork and want to get away.
 
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