"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I try with this other girl?

doctor1996

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Got her number last Thursday, haven't texted since Sunday. Conversation went like this

Me: Hey ____, let's grab a coffee Wednesday or Thursday night at 8:00 pm at _____.

Her: "Hi, I don't have this phone registered, who is this?"

Me: "It's _____ from Thursday."

Her: "Ahh hi! How are you? I'll have to check idk if it'll be possible this week"

10 hours later me: "I'm doing great, a lot of studying to do. How are you doing?"

Her: "Same, this month is gonna be crazy pretty much"

I just left it there. I could care less, but is it worth trying again? I already have this other girls number that I haven't texted yet, I got yesterday. Opinions, and tips for improving game?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lizardking82

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Chick is busy or she is flaking, doesn't matter. For now, move on. About 2 weeks later you COULD make a second invitation and if the answer is unclear there, too, then you delete number and go on with your life.

You got this, keep it up.
 

Tooldtoworry

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Hit her for a fri night. She will be burned out from schoolwork and want to get away.
 
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