ok this waitress comes into my work almost every friday night. and when i ring her up she seems to smile alot and jokes with me. i was thinkin about askin her if she would like to smoke with me and then try and get ehr digits afterwards if it went well. should i try it? i know nothin about this girl but she looks semi decent and seems pretty chill.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
should i try for her digits?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
well i wasnt lookin for a no i was hopin for some1 to tell me it isnt a stupid thing to do. usually i wouldnt even think about doin it, and cuz of that im basically a amatuer. i hope she stops in 2 morro cuz i really need to get my **** 2gether and maybe it wont be as hard to aproach girls when im out
Thats the first thing you need to know here. If you see a girl you like, MAKE A MOVE, and dont let anything stop you. Why wouldnt it be a good idea to approach this girl? Worse case scenario, she says no. Best case scenario.... use your imagination.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
Yes.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
strong like bull
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use the search function to find "Sexuality Projection" , by Ojete
the problem is that youre overthinking such a simple, natural process. get in touch with the desires you have as a man. you like her, you want her, so go for her. leave all the worrying and analyzing behind.
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the problem is that youre overthinking such a simple, natural process. get in touch with the desires you have as a man. you like her, you want her, so go for her. leave all the worrying and analyzing behind.
-SLB
)but its better then bein 230 and havin a huge gut.get this **** the 1 time im ready and confident to ask this girl her number and stuff she doesnt come in lol. she is there every friday night and the 1 time i was gonna make a move she decided not to come. now i gotta wait till next week if ima try it.... lol
MascaraSnake
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sigh
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DonGorgon
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numbers mean nothing you should have called her up long ago and started the game you will have to play