ok this waitress comes into my work almost every friday night. and when i ring her up she seems to smile alot and jokes with me. i was thinkin about askin her if she would like to smoke with me and then try and get ehr digits afterwards if it went well. should i try it? i know nothin about this girl but she looks semi decent and seems pretty chill.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
should i try for her digits?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
well i wasnt lookin for a no i was hopin for some1 to tell me it isnt a stupid thing to do. usually i wouldnt even think about doin it, and cuz of that im basically a amatuer. i hope she stops in 2 morro cuz i really need to get my **** 2gether and maybe it wont be as hard to aproach girls when im out
Thats the first thing you need to know here. If you see a girl you like, MAKE A MOVE, and dont let anything stop you. Why wouldnt it be a good idea to approach this girl? Worse case scenario, she says no. Best case scenario.... use your imagination.
Randallpink83
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Yes.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
strong like bull
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use the search function to find "Sexuality Projection" , by Ojete
the problem is that youre overthinking such a simple, natural process. get in touch with the desires you have as a man. you like her, you want her, so go for her. leave all the worrying and analyzing behind.
-SLB
the problem is that youre overthinking such a simple, natural process. get in touch with the desires you have as a man. you like her, you want her, so go for her. leave all the worrying and analyzing behind.
-SLB
)but its better then bein 230 and havin a huge gut.get this **** the 1 time im ready and confident to ask this girl her number and stuff she doesnt come in lol. she is there every friday night and the 1 time i was gonna make a move she decided not to come. now i gotta wait till next week if ima try it.... lol
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sigh
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonGorgon
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numbers mean nothing you should have called her up long ago and started the game you will have to play