ok this waitress comes into my work almost every friday night. and when i ring her up she seems to smile alot and jokes with me. i was thinkin about askin her if she would like to smoke with me and then try and get ehr digits afterwards if it went well. should i try it? i know nothin about this girl but she looks semi decent and seems pretty chill.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
should i try for her digits?
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
well i wasnt lookin for a no i was hopin for some1 to tell me it isnt a stupid thing to do. usually i wouldnt even think about doin it, and cuz of that im basically a amatuer. i hope she stops in 2 morro cuz i really need to get my **** 2gether and maybe it wont be as hard to aproach girls when im out
Thats the first thing you need to know here. If you see a girl you like, MAKE A MOVE, and dont let anything stop you. Why wouldnt it be a good idea to approach this girl? Worse case scenario, she says no. Best case scenario.... use your imagination.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
Yes.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
strong like bull
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use the search function to find "Sexuality Projection" , by Ojete
the problem is that youre overthinking such a simple, natural process. get in touch with the desires you have as a man. you like her, you want her, so go for her. leave all the worrying and analyzing behind.
-SLB
the problem is that youre overthinking such a simple, natural process. get in touch with the desires you have as a man. you like her, you want her, so go for her. leave all the worrying and analyzing behind.
-SLB
)but its better then bein 230 and havin a huge gut.get this **** the 1 time im ready and confident to ask this girl her number and stuff she doesnt come in lol. she is there every friday night and the 1 time i was gonna make a move she decided not to come. now i gotta wait till next week if ima try it.... lol
MascaraSnake
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sigh
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonGorgon
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numbers mean nothing you should have called her up long ago and started the game you will have to play