"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I try again?

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Lotusman

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There's this girl I've known for a while now through a social group. I've always sensed some attraction between us despite her being in a LTR. Anyway about 6 months ago when she was going through a "this isn't going anyway phase" we had lunch a couple of times, saw each other in social settings and we constanlty flirted with kino etc and i noticed a lot of interest signals. I asked her out 1on1 a couple of times but she once cancelled on me and then suggested we go out with mutual friends. I got a bit pissed off, felt a bit misled and walked-away, even though she was still with her b.f.

Now I hear her LTR is totally over.. should I go for it again even though I created some bad vibes between us & shown my cards?

Forum, please advise as I've gone down the AFC route far to many times before!

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yuriy777

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I wouldn't, but it's your decision as to walk away or lay your hand down again.
I would recommend moving on, but that's just me.
 
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Uro.Essence

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If you truly do like this girl then go for it, but be warned that she could use you as a rebound just to get him jealous then go back to him.

Just beware of her intentions, and dont get to attached to fast.
 
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