"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I try again?

Lotusman

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There's this girl I've known for a while now through a social group. I've always sensed some attraction between us despite her being in a LTR. Anyway about 6 months ago when she was going through a "this isn't going anyway phase" we had lunch a couple of times, saw each other in social settings and we constanlty flirted with kino etc and i noticed a lot of interest signals. I asked her out 1on1 a couple of times but she once cancelled on me and then suggested we go out with mutual friends. I got a bit pissed off, felt a bit misled and walked-away, even though she was still with her b.f.

Now I hear her LTR is totally over.. should I go for it again even though I created some bad vibes between us & shown my cards?

Forum, please advise as I've gone down the AFC route far to many times before!

thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yuriy777

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I wouldn't, but it's your decision as to walk away or lay your hand down again.
I would recommend moving on, but that's just me.
 

Uro.Essence

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If you truly do like this girl then go for it, but be warned that she could use you as a rebound just to get him jealous then go back to him.

Just beware of her intentions, and dont get to attached to fast.
 
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