"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I try again?

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Lotusman

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There's this girl I've known for a while now through a social group. I've always sensed some attraction between us despite her being in a LTR. Anyway about 6 months ago when she was going through a "this isn't going anyway phase" we had lunch a couple of times, saw each other in social settings and we constanlty flirted with kino etc and i noticed a lot of interest signals. I asked her out 1on1 a couple of times but she once cancelled on me and then suggested we go out with mutual friends. I got a bit pissed off, felt a bit misled and walked-away, even though she was still with her b.f.

Now I hear her LTR is totally over.. should I go for it again even though I created some bad vibes between us & shown my cards?

Forum, please advise as I've gone down the AFC route far to many times before!

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yuriy777

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I wouldn't, but it's your decision as to walk away or lay your hand down again.
I would recommend moving on, but that's just me.
 
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Uro.Essence

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If you truly do like this girl then go for it, but be warned that she could use you as a rebound just to get him jealous then go back to him.

Just beware of her intentions, and dont get to attached to fast.
 
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