"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I **** the average girl or work my way up to a hot one?

jebach123

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17 year old virgin with two girls in school.
GIRL ONE: Basic hoe. Blonde, hot af.
GIRL TWO: Smart, talented, singer, average girl and not really my type(looks) but shes ****able.

Girl one doesn't want me, she goes for jerks and scumbags. Girl two, I can bang her. I've been single for a year now and personality really attracts me more. But I don't want feelings I just want a ***** in the bed. So, do I "work on myself" and go for the hottie or just bang this average girl?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Why not both?
 

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I would strongly suggest fvcking what you have AND working towards getting what you want.

1) having more sex makes you more suave, gives you "hot guy blaze",
2) looks get boring after couple of weeks, personality is forever,
3) it's extremely hard to get over dry spell, especially a year long one,
4) hot doesn't mean good sex.

So go fvck somebody ASAP.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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First the basic chick. Then the hot b!tch. Chicks know if you are banging other girls and will want you more because of it whether they like it or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So either no sex until a hot one or sex with average without getting better. Reality is a bit more flexible than that.

Do both and fvck your way up to a hot one, you win now and you win later.
 

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A bird in the hand is better than 2 in the bush
 
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