"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I **** the average girl or work my way up to a hot one?

jebach123

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17 year old virgin with two girls in school.
GIRL ONE: Basic hoe. Blonde, hot af.
GIRL TWO: Smart, talented, singer, average girl and not really my type(looks) but shes ****able.

Girl one doesn't want me, she goes for jerks and scumbags. Girl two, I can bang her. I've been single for a year now and personality really attracts me more. But I don't want feelings I just want a ***** in the bed. So, do I "work on myself" and go for the hottie or just bang this average girl?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Why not both?
 

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I would strongly suggest fvcking what you have AND working towards getting what you want.

1) having more sex makes you more suave, gives you "hot guy blaze",
2) looks get boring after couple of weeks, personality is forever,
3) it's extremely hard to get over dry spell, especially a year long one,
4) hot doesn't mean good sex.

So go fvck somebody ASAP.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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First the basic chick. Then the hot b!tch. Chicks know if you are banging other girls and will want you more because of it whether they like it or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Serenity

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So either no sex until a hot one or sex with average without getting better. Reality is a bit more flexible than that.

Do both and fvck your way up to a hot one, you win now and you win later.
 

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A bird in the hand is better than 2 in the bush
 
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