"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I **** the average girl or work my way up to a hot one?

jebach123

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17 year old virgin with two girls in school.
GIRL ONE: Basic hoe. Blonde, hot af.
GIRL TWO: Smart, talented, singer, average girl and not really my type(looks) but shes ****able.

Girl one doesn't want me, she goes for jerks and scumbags. Girl two, I can bang her. I've been single for a year now and personality really attracts me more. But I don't want feelings I just want a ***** in the bed. So, do I "work on myself" and go for the hottie or just bang this average girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Why not both?
 

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I would strongly suggest fvcking what you have AND working towards getting what you want.

1) having more sex makes you more suave, gives you "hot guy blaze",
2) looks get boring after couple of weeks, personality is forever,
3) it's extremely hard to get over dry spell, especially a year long one,
4) hot doesn't mean good sex.

So go fvck somebody ASAP.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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First the basic chick. Then the hot b!tch. Chicks know if you are banging other girls and will want you more because of it whether they like it or not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So either no sex until a hot one or sex with average without getting better. Reality is a bit more flexible than that.

Do both and fvck your way up to a hot one, you win now and you win later.
 

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A bird in the hand is better than 2 in the bush
 
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