I met a girl in class the other day. She approached me and later ended up giving me her number. The next day I told her we should go out for drinks after class, which she agreed to. This "date" or whatever you wanna call it is 4 days away. should I call/text her between now and then?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
should i text/call her before we hang out?
- Thread starter duke104
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The proper answer is...
A real man would text a girl whenever he felt like it. He would not delve into tactical preparation
So basically, if you feel like texting this girl, do it... but do not come across as pathetic or needy. Keep it light and funny
Humour wins hearts.
A real man would text a girl whenever he felt like it. He would not delve into tactical preparation
So basically, if you feel like texting this girl, do it... but do not come across as pathetic or needy. Keep it light and funny
Humour wins hearts.
Johnnyventana
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No fkn way! Just show up. Be cool, yo.
You already made plans. There is anticipation which = good. Why ruin in? Unless you're texting to save her: there is a bomb in her building, I'm pretty sure whatever you have to say can wait for in person. Keep the anticipation. you only get one shot at 'new.'
You already made plans. There is anticipation which = good. Why ruin in? Unless you're texting to save her: there is a bomb in her building, I'm pretty sure whatever you have to say can wait for in person. Keep the anticipation. you only get one shot at 'new.'
ELMER_GANTRY
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just show up for your date, you already made plans for the drinks.